Significant things that make a Russian women a perfect wife for a western men are in the details of what both the woman and man in question - desire in a marriage:
American men secretly wish to find a sweet, old-fashioned girl - steeped in tradition, just like good old Dad did. They love the idea of taking care of, and spoiling their princesses - who they will joyfully spend their lives with. Although companionship is also an important quality to consider, men long to lavish attention on a woman who believes in, and supports them, through thick and thin. Someone who stays confident, and never questions, that her man will somehow make everything alright - no matter what it is, is something some men only dream they could have with their woman. And when a girl needs only her man to show her the things about life she doesn’t know, a man’s heart is won forever. The simple fact is - a man wants a woman who makes him see the man he’s always longed to be, looking back in his mirror at him - a man others respect, love, and have confidence in. Someone who can make him feel this way, is a damsel worth rescuing from the dragon.
Many Russian women are looking for that kind of prince to rescue her. A hero she can look up to - who sweeps her off her feet, making everything alright with the world. Because they’re born into traditional roles, these women believe only a man can love and protect his woman - and give her what she requires in life. He’ll take care of her by working hard to give her a solid house, delicious food, elegant clothes, children - and any other luxury she may desire.
This woman’s job is a simple, and noble, labor of love. To make sure that she has a good dinner on the table, and a drink in her hand for her hero as she smilingly welcomes him at the door each evening, is just common sense. As is teaching her children to respect and greet with love, the man who takes such good care of them. When alone with him, she can offer her support in any way he sees fit - lending her ear so he can unleash the days frustrations, or in another, more intimate way, later in private.
Threat of their birthright becoming fading to nothing, makes many men feel unstable about their ability to take care of a wife and family these days - thanks in part to the equality battles that have been raging on between the genders for some decades. To be fair, the modern American woman can seem a slightly less-feminine, and understandably confusing, creature to the males who grew believing in certain stereotypes.
The perfect woman to many men, whether they admit it or not, is one with culture, charm, grace and intelligence - who also happens to be satisfied in her role as a woman, - and enjoys the details of that role. In addition, this woman would also totally agree that there is no place in a man’s world where it’s proper for a woman to try to fit in. Russian women, being fair of face and figure - and known to defer to their men - fit the role of that dream girl almost to a “T”. It may be that American men longing for this kind of traditional life with a traditional woman, may have found it after all, with these exotic ladies. These days a woman who actually chooses this traditional type of role to feel fulfilled, is almost unheard of. Most people in the world don’t respect that there are good reasons for differences between the sexes. Maybe because of her upbringing, this girl instinctively knows not to cross boundaries not meant for her.
To Russian women looking for a hero, it’s a simple equation of boy and girl adding up to the right answer. As they see it, they are in the role God intended for them - and they have no desire to step outside of it and attempt to take on the very difficult job of being a man.
Those reasons would be some strong ones to support the argument why a Russian women a perfect wife for a western men - and the fact that both these individuals want the same in a partner, is apparent in each one.
Mark De Schutter is the webmaster of a Russian dating site called “Russian Dating Live”. This is an internet dating service for men who would like to get in contact with Russian ladies who are serious about marriage to foreign men.